3six5dates

Four women in four cities take on 365 dates between them. Follow their adventures and misadventures.

92. When THE Day Comes… – Mr. Life And Death

This date was momentous for me: it was my last 3six5date, the last day of the year and the last time I get to share my embarrassment or excitement or disgust or frustration with


92. ‘Til Our Date Does Us Part – Mr. Not For Me

It is my last 3six5dates, and I have a 3six5dates first: a very awkward pre-date waiting period. I arrived at this restaurant Mr. Not For Me is a part-owner of and told the hostess I


91. As Time Goes… Mr. Old Flame

I came across Mr. Old Flame again by accident. Before that, I never thought I would see him again. After a few e-mails, I learned that he had been single for quite some time; he


90. Heavy Breathing Vs. Inner Thighs – Mr. Sexually Aggressive

The first time I met Mr. Sexually Aggressive, it was among a group of friends. He was the quietest one; once in a while he would smile or make a couple of quick comments. …and


89. Why So Serious? Mr. Wiki

I must say Mr. Wiki was a big surprise. Considering all the info I had gotten from the friend who introduced us, I could never have imagined my date would be such a talker. Thought


90. My Inner Therapist On A Date – Mr. In Shock

We all have an inner therapist. Some call her “overanalyzing”, some call her women’s intuition, and some—mostly male—call her annoying. We can honor her or ignore her.  Dates, like the one I just had with


88. Oiya! Mr. Kung Fu

No doubt I liked Mr. Kung Fu’s smile, teeth and body, but he was not as masculine or as big as I had expected him to be. Not the stereotypical kung fu guy. But he moved


89. The “M” Word – Mr. New England

Just two minutes before I arrived at Brother Jimmy’s BBQ, I got a text from Mr. New England (LINK): “I’m the guy in the shorts and Ed Hardy shirt.” As the bouncer checked my ID, I looked


87. Being Watched – Mr. Paranoid

I was just beginning to ask about his job, then – “Shush!” He put a finger to his lips, “They are listening to us.” “They?” I asked confused. I did not see who he meant by


88. Take Me Or Leave Me – Mr. Thinks I’m A Trip

I arrive at Blackstones Pub a few minutes before Mr. Thinks I’m A Trip and order a drink at the back bar. I am not usually waiting for men, but when I am, it would


86. Sex Talk – Mr. Oral Sex

We had already set up the date last week, so it was too late for me to cancel. Even though I cannot stop thinking about Mr. Dreamy. And I knew he would be a hard act


86. Going The Distance – Mr. On A Visa

Back in the day, when I used to frequent nightclubs with my girlfriends, I would say that the best type of men to meet in these venues are the ones who buy you a


83. A Serious Joker – Mr. Serious

Among all the dates in the last few months, Mr. Serious was the one with the cutest face – cute as in like a huggable pet or a chubby baby. I simply could not help


82. Girlfriend Hiring – Mr. Casting

At the very end of the date, Mr. Casting said, “Let’s do this again soon.” “Um, definitely. This was fun.” I replied politely. But I knew there would not be any next time. He rolled his eyes


83. Off Limits Or Not? Mr. What A Coincidence

Mr. What A Coincidence and I decide to meet for an early happy hour at Uva. I always love it there and was delighted to learn that they offer complimentary appetizers with each alcoholic beverage